We live in a truly ironical time today. While this is a present generation where individualism and authentic self-expression without concern of what other people think of you is what the norm is. However, do you realize that there are people around you who aren't actually projecting their honest self upon you? There are people amidst us, who are narcissists. How do you know if you have a Narcissist in your life?
There are some common themes which a Narcissistic personality in your life shall exude and it'll have the common effect on you or anyone else. Do you constantly feel guilty that everything that is going wrong in the relationship is because of you? Does your argument ever gets heard? Do you feel inferiority complex in from of him? Then you are really in a relationship with a person who is a Narcissist. If you ask me who exactly is a Narcissist, then here's your answer.
As per Psychologist, Stephen Jhonson, a Narcissist is a person, who, "Buries his Self Expression in response to early injuries and replace it with highly developed compensatory false self. Narcissistic people are so self-absorbed that they project their personality upon you which is so grandiose and celebrated that you will feel inferiority complex in front of them. In fact they are so insecure of the true personality that they have taken on this fake personality and go on endless bragging about it and projecting onto people. They will not let you talk about your feelings, they will never ask your opinions, shall always interrupt your conversation. Moreover, Narcissist people are also rule breakers. You cannot confine them to any rules. And finally, the most common sign of them is that these people really think that the world revolves around them. They really behave like superhumans, who are devoid of any flaws and have a grandiose sense of self, which is so charming that you cannot resist it.
A Narcissistic relationship shall ruin your life. And it can be anything. From your love relationship to even your Parents. There have been numerous cases where Kids are tired and distraught beyond repair by their Narcissistic Parents.
So, if you are in a Narcissistic relation, the first step is to identify them and then start making your distance with that person. Even if you are an empath and you kind of sympathize with the person at the other end's situation and you even think that their actions are justified, it's not. You need to be in a relationship where there is mutual respect of each other's self and personality. Ego is important only till a fine boundary. Beyond that it is a sense of false self, that is of no use. So, check out these Narcissistic Quotes below and take care of yourself.
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#1. Only if they loved themselves
#3. Toxic People
#5. When Loving someone unconditionally gives you emotional abuse in return, you know its a loss
#6. When you are tired of lies
#9. When the lies seem clearer
#10. The moment when you know that you've been lied
#12. Oh! How I wish I didn't read it
#13. Every guy should know this
#14. The HARDEST thing I ever did was this
#15. A True Man would always know this
#16. I needed this quote to tell me that
#17. The Pretentions and the games taught me so many things
#18. Who knew that "One Person" would be nobody else but you
#19. A Little Tip
#20. But, you didn't Stop
#21. How could you?
#22. My Bible for now
#23. Basically, you're the one who needs to get healed
#24. The Way you left me
#25. Poor heart who wishes it had listened to the mind
#26. Ha! That Social Media Charm
#27. Beautifully Explained
#28. Rightly Said. This is exactly what change means to a Narc
#29. My Delusions & Imaginations are at fault, it's not you, it's me
#30. It's surely not a habit